Because your real friends will tell you the truth

And now for an update from Lonelyville population 1:

Things are looking up! Thank you for the kind comments, emails and even! phone calls (God I love me the phone calls! I feel like a human again. But apparently a pathetic human, as my most honest friend Devin pointed out in her email this afternoon:

Ok lady you have some issues. Just read your blog. First of all if people are your friends you can never bother them by calling or emailing them so call or email away…I will say that yes everyone is very wrapped up in the post holiday clap trap…some unpacking, some decompressing, also back to the old work grind…so although you didn't have people awaiting your arrival outside your home, or people threatening suicide if you didn't call immediately, you are still as ever loved. Crazy and insecure but loved none the less…wanna go have coffee..

Devin, as you might have guessed, was voted Most Likely to Tell You if Your Butt Looks Big in Those Pants.

So thankful for all of my friends, the painfully honest ones as well as those who will happily blow smoke up my ass. There is room for all of you.